Thursday, December 4, 2014

On Sleep, Service Dog Dreams and Caffeine

The days are going by so quickly right now that sometimes I feel like I go to sleep on Monday night and wake up on Friday and wonder where all the days in between have disappeared to.

James is "sleeping through the night."

Alright, I should really say he's sleeping through the night by pediatrician standards, which means that he sleeps for six consecutive hours each night, between the hours of 11 pm and 5 am.  At 5 am the entire house wakes up to Maggie loudly telling us that its morning.

Can I just say that never in my entire life have I been less of a fan of day light savings time?

I woke up this morning thinking, "That's it.  We have to move to Arizona.  Or South Africa.  Or anyplace without Day Light Savings time."

Because Maggie, with her rigid little internal clock, does not recognize the time change.  And she wakes up her sister who yells "Mommy, is it morning time yet?  Maggie and I are awake!" which is immediately followed by Patch in his room yelling back "Guppies?  Guppies?" because he's hoping that he is going to be allowed to watch Bubble Guppies (his obsession) at some point over the course of the day (as a side note the second most talked about topic that Patch brings up is his need to have a puppy... which I think we can blame on a particular episode of Bubble Guppies...).

And then it's all over for poor James, who might be able to sleep for longer than six hours if his brother and sisters weren't so enthusiastically loud at 5 am every morning (or if 10-11pm wasn't his favorite play time).

And nothing, from staying up hours past her bedtime to having everyone stay in their room until the time that we wish they would sleep until (6 am) makes a difference.

In terms of sleep problems, it's not a horrible problem to have.  I mean, Sadie woke up every hour for the first eighteen months of her life, which means that I spent a year and a half stumbling around like a blurry eyed zombie, so really, I know that the sleep situation could be much, much worse.

Still, I'm hoping, really desperately praying if I'm honest, that her service dog application is approved.  We made it through the first application and collected the information from her psychologist and doctor and therapists that we needed for the next round and now we're waiting to hear back if we'll be approved for a home visit.  I've read stories about how great the dogs can be at night and how calming they can be, and so I'm hoping every day that we hear good news from them sometime soon (it can take 24 months though to move on to the next part of the process... so we may be waiting a while).

And if anyone is still following along in this stream-of-consciousness-totally-random-post can I just say that I might be going downstairs in a few minutes to find a sugar free caffeinated beverage to offer my two girls (does that sound crazy to you? It does to me!) because earlier this week there was an incident involving Maggie having gluten, which led to me giving her a cup of coke in order to get her to take the medicine she needed to take that I was praying would help, since we had nothing else in the house that would mask the flavor/texture of what she needed to drink, and all the while I was thinking the result would be completely and totally disastrous but instead it was truly amazing.  While there was a (much smaller than in the past) reaction to the gluten, the immediate reaction of the caffeine was shocking.

Mae started talking more (which was truly surprising after having gluten), sat at the table for just about three hours doing her work and was incredibly focused.  Throughout the day she kept running over to me to touch my cheek and kiss me, and while that isn't unusual she was just so calm that I began to research and then talked to people with more experience about these things and it seems that we were seeing first hand how effective caffeine can be at helping people with ADHD focus.

Since two other members of the family have ADHD I guess it shouldn't be totally surprising if Mae might too (although how would we ever be able to tell with all the sensory seeking bouncing off the walls going on), but regardless, a small amount of caffeine seems to seriously help her focus and make her feel better, so I'm going to experiment with small amount of tea and honey to see if it makes a difference with her frustration level throughout the day.

And in other news Sadie's occupational therapist convinced me to start a brushing regimen that involves the brushing of limbs with a therapeutic brush followed by joint compressions, every two hours during the day.  We'd talked about doing it with Maggie, but I'd never started the two hour routine, so I decided if I were doing it with Sadie I might as well add in Mae, and then Patrick runs over yelling "Too!  Too!" and insisting he needs to be brushed as well, so that's a new component of our day and it's going to be interesting to see how it fits in... because once speech (finally) starts I believe we're going to have 12 therapy sessions a week crammed into our schedule... which might explain why time is flying by so quickly!

7 comments:

  1. Caffeine is a Godsend in our family- for the adults and the child. He now gets one ounce of coke in the morning (tried other things but they didn't work), and we've upped his melatonin to 3 mg at night. He has allergies, so on the days they are really bad, he gets Benadryl and 1.5 mg of melatonin. If he gets just the Benadryl he works through it and gets hyper. Also, we go back and forth on the brushing. It works during meltdowns but we did the two hour schedule and didn't notice a difference. He prefers lotion and compressions, which is done at school as well as at home as needed. Off topic, my little guy turned four this week which means I've been following your blog for five years!!!!

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  2. I don't mean to alarm you, but did you notice the white reflection in the iris of Maggie's eye in the photo on this post? It's probably nothing, but sometimes this indicates a medical condition. Here' s a link about it. The recommend you have a doctor check it out, just to be sure.

    http://www.chect.org.uk/cms/index.php/signs-and-symptoms/white-reflection-in-photo-white-reflex

    And that's so great about the caffeine. Did you know chocolate contains caffeine? I'm sure Mae would be happy to take as many semi-sweet morsels as you'd like to give her every day! Course, good luck keeping Sadie and Patch away! I was reading a cup of semi-sweet chocolate morsels contains as much caffeine as a cup of coffee.

    Your days seem packed! Here's to hoping you can start getting more than five hours of sleep each night!

    God Bless. ~ Bonnie

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  3. If they like the flavor of soda, you could use the soda streamer to make the tea fizzy. If it's sweet enough they probably won't even know the difference and a cold fizzy drink is much easier for kids to stomach than a hot one. You carbonate the water then add whatever base you'd want, so a sugar-tea concentrate is a good candidate.

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  4. I find that 1/3 caff coffee is a marvelous start to my day. Just enough caffeine to put my brain in gear but not enough to cause a crash later.

    I have an ADHD kid who would take caffiene to go to sleep. This same kid could focus best when fed eggs and bacon for breakfast-- the protein with the fats seemed to help the focus for all my children.

    On the other hand, my younger children respond to high carbohydrate foods with bad tempered wild behavior followed by a crash into sleep-- lets just say I consider people who want to hand my kids sweets without clearing it with me (I say no) to be the servants of the DEVIL!!

    The neurologically different can be sensitive to all sorts of things in unexpected ways. I find that for me, most of the time I can take the child's dose of over the counter medications and get a full response, but a few medications cause very very strange responses (personality shifts) so we do not use those with me!

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  5. A family friend's son was diagnosed ADHD years ago and was supposed to be put on Ritalin. Mom decided to try out this wacky theory and gave him a cup of coffee every morning before school which helped him focus so much that he never did go on Ritalin. Eventually this turned into a M-F coffee date at a local coffee shop between Mom and Son before heading off to school/work. Not saying that this will work for everyone, but I've seen first hand the positive effects of caffeine and ADHD.

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  6. Stimulants work for sure. In high school, I found I did better on tests by popping a couple Excedrin 30 minutes prior.

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  7. Hey, did you know you can buy caffeine in powder form? I guess that way you can control the amount (dosage) and add to any beverage or whatever. Here's a link to one site I saw. (I've never bought from them, and don't know the quality, but I just wanted you to see what I'm talking about.)

    Maybe it's available from where you buy other supplements.

    http://purebulk.com/caffeine-powder-synthetic/

    God Bless. ~ Bonnie

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