Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Homeschooling: The First Half of the Year
And I have to say... It's been way more fun than I expected it to be.
You see, when I first started thinking about homeschooling I was working as a coach at a high school back in California. Sadie wouldn't arrive for a couple more years. But Paul and I began to talk about what kind of education we'd want our children to have. Because of my own experiences I would likely have been drawn to homeschooling anyways, but that job sealed the deal. And Paul, was only too happy to agree.
So I began reading everything I could get my hands on. I fell in love with the Well Trained Mind. I read it twice. And I eagerly awaited the day when we would start school.
Then we got started.
Now I know we're still pretty new to this whole thing. I know that I have a lot to learn, and will learn it, in the coming years. And I know someone is probably going to say something like "just wait, just wait until something-something-something" when I will most certainly have days when I'm ready to throw in the towel.
But we haven't yet, and in some ways that amazes me.
Okay, I'm sure it helps that I'm starting with Sadie. I have a feeling she's the kind of student that most teachers would love to have in their classroom. She begs for more work. She asks to do school on the weekends. And she absorbs information like a little sponge and then repeats some complex science fact that she's learned two months later, leaving me wide eyed. When I let her, she watches science documentaries for fun. And then she begs to watch them over and over again.
So my main "problem" is having enough for her to do. Because I remember sitting in first grade where the teacher would draw lines in my books and say "don't go past this line" so I wouldn't get too far ahead and so I would finish the work in five minutes and sit there waiting. Since we aren't in a classroom Sadie wouldn't have to sit there waiting, but since she's so passionate about learning more, I'm just going to have to figure out a way to keep up (which means planning more than a week in advance for those days when she does a weeks worth of work all at once).
And the "work" part that I'd been warned about?
Doing school with her doesn't feel like work to me. It's a refreshing break in my day. I sit down and answer her questions. Often times I'm holding Patrick. Other times I'm holding Maggie. Sometimes they're both climbing on me, or pulling at my skirt. Sometimes Maggie sits at the table and draws next to her sister. Once and a while she'll sit in the same chair next to Sadie.
I have to say, that of all the things I do during the day that feel like work, school isn't one of them. Cooking everything we eat from scratch with insane dietary restrictions feels like work. Changing diaper after diaper gets a little old. Cleaning the house and doing dishes? Definitely work.
But school? School time I love. I love snuggling up on the couch and reading the latest Little House book. I love trips to the library to get new books for the week. I love going on field trips and seeing their little faces light up as they learn something new. And I love lining up My Little Ponies on the table and doing "pony math" with Sadie (she will tell you that math and religion are her favorite subjects... using my little ponies as manipulatives may have something to do with that.).
Maggie and I have started doing school too and I have to say, it's less of a challenge than I expected. She's interested in what her sisters doing and she can have laser like focus when she sees we're doing reading or math. She draws shapes and letters on her own.
Halfway through our first school year I can say with growing confidence that this was the right decision for our family. My hands might feel very full on some days, but even during particularly challenging moments I can't imagine wanting to be anywhere else.
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Thank you for sharing! I have 3 little ones too. My son will be 4 in December so we're just doing a tiny bit of "learning" right now. I'm a little nervous at times about handling everything.ReplyDelete
I love that you love homeschooling so much! I'm so glad it's working for your family. My best friend just started homeschooling her kids and there are days when my kids get home from school and still have at a minimum an hours worth of homework to do that I question why I'm not homeschooling them.ReplyDelete
My daughter plans to homeschool her now 2.5 year old son; he is clearly very smart and inquisitive. They have already started educating him in so many little ways every day.ReplyDelete
I so wish that there had been more support for homeschooling when my girls were little - it would have fit so well with our crazy schedule due to their dad's unusual work hours and limits on time off due to TV ratings periods, etc. We took as many field trips as possible, always took them with us when we traveled, encouraged reading, and tried to expose them to as many new experiences and places as possible. Both of our girls did quite well in our Catholic schools, but I am just a little envious of your homeschooling adventures.
A possible Sadie solution from my home school days:ReplyDelete
Keep a nice sane (brisk but sane) pace on the official curriculum, then, using the library, have Sadie choose something to study.
Let her select the books, and do the reading and create something, a paper, a painting, a project, a notebook, whatever she finds best, produce something to show what she has learned.
My parents let me get stacks of books from the library and I read and studied to my hearts content. I have always found the dual track of regular lessons and personally chosen unit studies to be highly satisfactory.
Anyway, just wanted to put that out there in case it could be just the thing to fit your little scholar.
My mom home schools all 7 of us kids, and we all have never regretted anything that she has done. Actually, we are all so thankful she didn't enroll us in school. Being taught at home has helped us all become closer to Jesus and the saints in heaven. The two oldest our now in college, and they both said it helped them (being home schooled) with their classes. I love being home schooled, and I believe I have gotten a better education then most kids my age. I have a hard times learning things and remembering them, and my mom, recognizing that, molded my schooling to just how I need it. That would never happen in public school! Although my mom says that my writing is very well done, there is one mistake I always make: I always write "home school" as one word: homeschool! You are doing everything right is all I can say! I'm glad you like it, and good luck for the future years :)ReplyDelete