|For her third birthday she demanded a|
"Holy Baby" party.
The other day we began talking about all the jobs that nuns and sisters can do. She looked downright gloomy until I said: "And some go away from the world and pray..." at which point she completely lit up and said: "That! That! That's what I want to do! I want to go away from the world and pray!" which is odd to hear her say, since she's the most extroverted person I've ever met in my entire life, going up to random little kids she sees and saying: "Hi! My name is Sadie Kathleen. I'm four and a half... What's your name?"
She's also decided that "Mae Bae should be a missionary nun" and corrects me when I call Patrick "My little boy" by saying "You mean, My Little Priest." Poor Patrick is in a Sadie run catechism that involves his sister desperately trying to teach him how to make the sign of the cross and say his prayers.
|All Saint's Day 2011|
I really, really wanted to run across the room and grab my tape recorder and record her story, but I was afraid that if I did she'd become self conscious about it and it would ruin to sibling cuteness that was going on.
I also feel like I owe the compilers of the Catholic Children's Treasure Box a huge debt of gratitude because many of the stories in the series involve children helping their parents without being asked, and yesterday Sadie came over and asked me if she could wash the walls (I was scrubbing crayon marks from a red crayon that the two year old has somehow pilfered) for me, so that she could help and be more like Mary. So if anyone wants to know what we read, mainly it's that.
Other phrases, such as, "Mommy can we play Church?" have surprised me of late. And I know I'll be in trouble this morning, because I didn't get around to washing a teeny tiny stain out of her brown Carmelite dress, after specific instructions before bed time to please not forget (it'll be going straight into the next load this morning, but I don't dare to hope that will be before anyone notices).
|Yes. That would be the nun cake that she talked about|
non-stop for two months.
I'm getting off easy this year if she goes for a princess
This came up recently when we were watching the cardinals file in before the conclave and I said: "Oh, I wish I could be there!" meaning, in Rome while all this was going on. Sadie looked at me and shook her little head before saying: "Mommy, You cannot be there. You are a girl. Only boys are allowed to be there!" before gesturing to the room on the TV. Her little words conveyed horror that I would express such a wish. She usually follows such statements with: "and I will be a nun someday!"
Which leads me to the times when I feel a catch in my throat when she talks about wanting to be a saint with all her heart and asks if I will miss her when she's a saint, and I try to say in a jokingly tone that it better be years and years before she goes anywhere.
So I continue to watch and be surprised on a daily basis with what she comes up with and wonder if it is a phase, or if it truly is a lasting vocation that she's somehow heard at such a young age. And a couple times a year I write about it here so that she can read about it someday, no matter what path she chooses and smile at the little girl dreams of "going away to pray for the world."
Oh and can you guess what her latest request is? A nun habit like the ones in Song of Bernadette... I'm perfecting my habit making skills little by little each year with Sadie's help.
Wow, that's adorable! I went through a "nun phase" myself from age 7.5 to roughly 17. Good luck with the habit- and cake-making! ;-)ReplyDelete
Re the extrovert thing: I read an article once on the subject of monastic vocations. IIRC, it was written by either a priest or a nun. In it, the author explained that extroverts often do better in a monastery than introverts, because, if you think about it, they really are around people all day except during an hour of private prayer or so. Even if the community is silent for a lot of the day, they still have to be around each other and be pleasant and kind all the time, which is something that introverts can find very, very difficult, especially in larger communities.ReplyDelete
Of course, who knows what Sadie's vocation might be, but it is something to think about.
So sweet! My 3.5-year-old never questions the fact that boys can be priests and girls can be nuns, but he goes nuts when I tell him he can't be a mommy :PReplyDelete
Sometimes God calls the people you would least expect to the religious life. My sister was a total fashionista, extrovert, loved clothes and shopping, and friends and going out etc. and gave it all up to join a Franciscan order.ReplyDelete
You should show her the Holy Spirit Adoration Sister of Lincoln, NE. They wear pink habits!ReplyDelete